Introduction

Many parents are completely bewildered when their child comes home from school expressing an interest in instrumental music. Your son or daughter has probably attended an assembly where the music teacher demonstrated all the instruments and he or she is excited about learning to play one.

You, on the other hand, are now faced with many decisions regarding your involvement in this new enterprise and whether or not you, as well as your child, are ready to take on this new responsibility.

Countless studies have been done that show being involved in instrumental music improves both academic and social development. However, as the child's parent you would know best if they are mature enough to keep up with their studies and learn an instrument.

There are great rewards and a lot of fun in learning an instrument. However, learning an instrument takes commitment. You should have a talk with your son or daughter and explain that they will have to practice their instrument just like they have to do homework. Learning an instrument takes time and you do not achieve immediate success. Therefore, you should make an agreement with your child to commit to a period of at least one school year of giving it an honest try.

As a parent, your support of this new venture is crucial. Your excitement about what your child is doing will be reflected in his or her chances of success.

Make a time each day for them to practice. Listen to them practice and show your approval with each (however small) improvement you notice. Be sure to attend your child's concerts. Also, invite friends and relatives to hear these concerts. All these things re-enforce your child's sense of self worth and that you approve of their hard work.

If this sounds right for you and your child then let's move on to ...